Many couples get lazy with s3x! They go into it as a matter of routine. No wonder that it sometimes becomes boring and altogether pushed to the back burner in a relationship!
Yet, s3x experts are saying that in order for s3x to be exciting and ‘new’ each time, you can spice it up in a lot of ways;
1. Try new position
Even if both of you have an easier time reaching orgasm in one position (as do most women), you can still try other positions. For instance, moving around during s3x, and changing positions, has several benefits. It not only helps the man last longer, it also helps increase the excitement factor.
For instance, the woman can get on top, move the legs around and find a good angle. Make it a goal that every third time you make love, you’ll use at least three positions. So maybe two times are fun and simple, but then, spice the third time up!
2. Tilt your pelvis
For women to reach an orgasm, the clitoris must be stimulated in some way. Normal missionary position s3x doesn’t tend to do this. But with one simple trick, you can make it so much better. Encourage your woman to tilt up her pelvis (by squeezing her butt muscles).
This makes the angle better, so that when he’s thrusting, he will hit your clitoris. But you also engage his penis because the tilting squeezes the clitoris. You can do this in any position and enhance the pleasure.
3. Start with a massage
Couples are encouraged to start s3x with a massage. Keep some massage oil on the bedside table, or a massage candle, and start by massaging each other’s backs and legs.
The benefits? It helps you relax first. Also, if you massage naked, it’s very sensual, and it can get the libido going. It also shows that both of you care, it helps your bodies to relax, and it helps both of you to calm down mentally.
4. Play teacher
Just because you’re married doesn’t mean that you understand each other s3xually. What feels good to one person does not necessarily feel good to another. And men tend to like being touched very differently than women do (men like things rougher and more deliberate; women tend to like things lighter).
Also, just because something is an erotic zone does not mean that it wants to be touched all the time. For instance, many women don’t like their breasts touched roughly at all, or even handled that much; but when they’re highly aroused all of a sudden, it’s exciting. So, tell each other exactly what to do. The advantage here is that, couples may think they’ve lost their libido when really their bodies have just changed and responds to different things now.
Culled from ThePunch
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