Funny as it might sound but the truth is embedded in it. Sometimes we humans are always the intelligent architect behind every bump in our relationships.A popular saying goes this,”there can’t be smoke without fire”.Food for thought, feed on it! We need to thoroughly examine our actions and shortcomings and tell ourselves the Bitter Truth.Yes!Bitter Truth!Two words! Facts!
Permit me to share with you some steps on how to avoid or rather,reduce the chances of emotional trauma in our relationships.
Oh my Gosh!You really need that most importantly,it is a virtue.You have patience,you are everything. No matter how infuriating the situation at hand is,My Love,take a very deep breathe in and out repeatedly and you’ll be fine.
Forgiveness is simply letting go of grudges,setting a prisoner free and realizing the prisoner was you.The benefit of forgiveness is solely for you and your relationship. Learn to forgive you partner’s misdeed!
HAVE A CALM CONVERSATION
You need to learn to have a heart warming conversation with your partner.You both are humans and not animals. You’ve got feelings. So why tear at each other’s throat.All you need to do is get close to your partner,say those soft words you know will do the magic and communicate.
Literally, you were not created to be perfect.You have your flaws.Why not take a minute or two or even more to examine yourself.Ask questions and search for answers. If your partner acting up or giving attitude, then you must have crossed the forbidden line!
SAY THE WORD “SORRY”
“I’m sorry”,”I’m really sorry”,”I’m sincerely sorry”.However,you choose to put it.Those words should never be too heavy for your mouth to say.It’s a magic word,it does wonder! Pride and ego kills a relationship faster than cheating.
Respect,they say,is reciprocal. He deserves to be respected as much as you do.Same thing applies to your decisions individually. There is always a line that shouldn’t be crossed.Before you take an action,you both need to consider each other’s feeling/opinion.When respect goes missing, it’s a Red Flag!!!
Lover man,everything doesn’t exactly have to be on your terms and condition.Are you trying to prove that’s what defines you as a Real Man.Young Lady,sometimes you can’t have your cake and yet eat it. No way!You both have to meet halfway.That’s how it’s done.Meet halfway and take the walk together. Simple!!!
This is the key secret to every successful and happy relationship out there.Most times,you find that inner peace after taking your anger,pain,sorrow and bitterness to God.He is the ultimate one who can comfort and direct you.If only you can and will listen to Him.”He who has ears,let him ear.”
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